Yes I went over there and saw them last night.
If BQ wants to use his own server for his own purposes, no one has any business telling him he can't. I could see how the situation could be misconstrued, but Jedi and BQ were just having a friendly chat while playing. I can see why he wouldn't want to come over because of what happened last week, its probably better to lock this thread and let things cool off for awhile.
I can foresee a flamefest.